Just wondering—how many rejections would it take before it’s smarter to stop applying to top US universities? Like, is there a point where it’s better to aim lower or change direction?
Honestly, it depends on how much you’re willing to handle emotionally and financially. Rejections suck, but they don’t necessarily mean you’re not good enough—it could be timing, competition, or even the smallest thing in your app. If top schools are your dream, it’s okay to face a few rejections. But yeah, maybe have a mix of targets and safeties too, just to keep your options open.
Totally agree with that. I know someone who applied to like 8 top schools and got rejected from 6 but got into one—and that one was more than enough. It’s not really about how many you get rejected from; it’s about getting that one yes. But if it’s becoming too overwhelming, taking a step back and reevaluating your list can be a good move too.